It Happened…..

Prior to marriage I firmly believed I’d be the woman who’d balance her career, hobbies, ministries, relationships, businesses, marriage and self love. πŸ€·πŸ»β€β™€οΈ There was absolutely no doubt in my mind I’d find the formula and execute well. Even when I gained 70 pounds (like literally a 10 year old attached themselves to my body)Continue reading “It Happened…..”

It’s our 9 month-iversary!!!

I’m actually amazed at how much can transpire in such a short time. The past 30 days have been interesting, lol! Step/Co-parenting is HARD! πŸ€¦πŸ»β€β™€οΈOmg, lol! Instead of adjusting to one personality (your spouse) you’re learning 4 personalities (your spouse, your stepchild, the other parent AND yourself because honey listen, you turn into a newContinue reading “It’s our 9 month-iversary!!!”

It’s Our 8 Monthi-versary!!

🚨Long post alert! (Sorry, sort of. Lol!)🚨 We’re getting close to our first anniversary! It’s exciting, scary and trying at times. This month was our most difficult so far. I know. I’m not supposed to say that. I’m supposed to talk about how we never argue, how life is grand, how we’re soulmates and madlyContinue reading “It’s Our 8 Monthi-versary!!”

180 Days!!!!!

It’s our 6-monthiversary!!!! πŸŽŠπŸŽ‰πŸŽˆ I received a call earlier and hubby went over my spending (he’s the budgeter in this relationship) to make sure we were on the same page. Then I walk in the house today to clean and folded laundry. I laughed because my husband could have done anything he wanted with hisContinue reading “180 Days!!!!!”

82 Days In…..

This was the last moment I had to myself on our wedding day. I was in deep thought about what was transpiring. I really had no idea just how much my life was going to change. I miss solitude at times. I never fully understood how coming home alone was my way of recharging myContinue reading “82 Days In…..”

30 Days….We Made It! Lol!

Can’t let the day pass without acknowledging my husband on a successful month of marriage, lol! 30 days ago we said I do and I’ve watched us grow tremendously in a short timespan. Everything hasn’t been all peachy, lol…we’d be lying if we said otherwise. We’ve seen the best and worst of each other butContinue reading “30 Days….We Made It! Lol!”

It’s Our 3-Monthiversary!!

Yesterday I learned some things about my husband’s childhood that I never knew. I mentioned that to remind ourselves that life is all about discovery and marriage is no different. Personally, I share everything. If you are my friend or even a close associate at some point you’ve heard deep things about my life becauseContinue reading “It’s Our 3-Monthiversary!!”

105 days in……

So today I realized 2 things: 1. I love family time (always have but it’s different now) πŸ‘ͺ 2. I never fully understood the babysitter struggle, lol!!πŸ’πŸ» Marrying someone with a child/ren completely changes things. You instantly become a parent (ready or not 😳) and your life embodies that responsibility. I have to say, it’sContinue reading “105 days in……”

It’s our 4 Month-iversary!!

My husband has proven his ability to love people no matter what, even when he’s not feeling them (me included) lol!! His heart is huge and his desire to improve every aspect of his life is even larger. The past 30 days came with arguments, disagreements and significantly differing opinions on a couple matters inContinue reading “It’s our 4 Month-iversary!!”

It’s Our 5-Monthiversary!!

A day late….but I’m sticking to this, lol! It’s our 5-monthiversary… We’re still learning lots about ourselves and each other. Listen, idk how some of y’all lived with your gf/bf for years…this is rough! LOL! I am not at all used to sharing space and hubby is quite the opposite. I did not have theContinue reading “It’s Our 5-Monthiversary!!”