It’s been 6 months….
AJ is one week old today!☺️ I’ve officially been a mommy for 7 days. In true fashion of myself…lemme tell y’all about it!😂 First of all…I am TIED (that’s tired for my proper readers)😂 I had him via c-section and that experience is traumatic ok? I don’t care what anyone else says. 🤷🏻♀️ I haveContinue reading “Week One: New Mommy”
Prior to marriage I firmly believed I’d be the woman who’d balance her career, hobbies, ministries, relationships, businesses, marriage and self love. 🤷🏻♀️ There was absolutely no doubt in my mind I’d find the formula and execute well. Even when I gained 70 pounds (like literally a 10 year old attached themselves to my body)Continue reading “It Happened…..”
We’re all different yet the same…how do we navigate this?
I’ve found out communication in marriage is no walk in the park, lol! The slightest disagreement seems world crashing (so petty) lol! Although this is temporary if you don’t get a handle on communication expectations NOW you’re headed for trouble. 🙄🤔😂 On a brighter note 😬😬: My husband is a chameleon, seriously. I can countContinue reading “Day 40: The Probation Period (look it up 😉)”
I’ve learned the true meaning of intimacy. It is NOT sex, lol! Sex is an event that occurs during an environment of intimacy, at least in marriage. Intimacy is true oneness of body, heart/mind and soul. And it’s built over time. The “jack rabbit ” phase is cool; what do you have after theContinue reading “47 DAYS IN…….”
In 60 days we’ve seen the best and worst of each other. We’ve explored depths of our personalities that we weren’t aware of. We’re learning to co-habitat. We’re learning our strengths and weaknesses. We’re simply doing life together and I couldn’t imagine taking this journey with anyone else. I know this time is a dropContinue reading “It’s Our 2 Month-iversary!!”
So today I realized 2 things: 1. I love family time (always have but it’s different now) 👪 2. I never fully understood the babysitter struggle, lol!!💁🏻 Marrying someone with a child/ren completely changes things. You instantly become a parent (ready or not 😳) and your life embodies that responsibility. I have to say, it’sContinue reading “105 days in……”
A day late….but I’m sticking to this, lol! It’s our 5-monthiversary… We’re still learning lots about ourselves and each other. Listen, idk how some of y’all lived with your gf/bf for years…this is rough! LOL! I am not at all used to sharing space and hubby is quite the opposite. I did not have theContinue reading “It’s Our 5-Monthiversary!!”